Today, some women get upset if you do such things. They take it as an insult. Dating is exhausting because we really don't know how to act. Society drives us crazy by sending us mixed messages about what is proper for the different sexes in a relationship.
So many people remain single because they have grown tired of the politics and games that comes with dating. People just have to decide how they want to treat the opposite sex and make it clear without any nonsense.